Will you be permitted to?
Yes. YouвЂ™re a grown girl that is formally solitary вЂ“ youвЂ™re allowed to have consensual intercourse with whoever you want. YouвЂ™ve discovered a sort, funny, smart guy and youвЂ™re both emotionally purchased one another. You feel just like youвЂ™re on the way to a relationship вЂ“ and I also need to state, the known proven fact that you donвЂ™t seem concerned about maybe perhaps not getting the label yet talks volumes.
So lots of people who are dating-but-not-officially-together panic during this period, because theyвЂ™re insecure and not sure and would like to know where this will be all going (oh, the drama). Which you donвЂ™t appear fazed by the not enough label, and feel pretty sure that both you and John can become together is big, and crucial. This implies that, while you state, everything you two have is solid, and worthwhile.