I concur that in your context, love isn’t unconditional. We do select our lovers according to our checklists, our professions, training, appears included. I do believe the unconditional love bit is what goes on when you have been in a relationship. We discover that simply because somebody checks off numerous containers doesn’t suggest it is possible to attain their state of unconditional love together. This is certainly one thing you’ll not understand until such time you get into it and requires constant work.
I do believe unconditional love is certainly much in a emotional sense, that far exceeds worldly practicalities such appearance, professions, academic degree, etc. It does not suggest having a whatever- goes mindset either, its going about this because of the intention of bringing out of the most useful in one another whilst not setting up with unreasonable or behaviour that is hurtful cheating for instance.